4. He is distant because he is trying to figure things out. The next reason is that he is taking a closer look at his real feelings for you. It is normal to have doubts about the relationship. When Answer (1 of 15): Don't worry. You should talk to him and tell him how you're feeling. He might have lost his interest in you, indeed, but that doesn't mean the love is gone. See, online · So let’s dive deep into why your man might be acting distant. 1. He is scared of his feelings. This is probably the biggest reason men act distant to a woman they like. They are I'd straight up ask why he's being distant all of a sudden, you deserve answers. Share. Report Save. level 2 · 2 yr. ago. I've tried online dating, and dating apps, but I pretty much ... read more
Then when you finally stop initiating the communication? He may then start to run hot again, pursuing you. You may even start to feel relived. Assuming that things with him are back on track again. Only to experience him repeating the same pattern and disappearing on you again.
Has he stopped moving your relationship forward and integrating you into his life? Or he no longer invites you to important events or introduces you to his friends or family. He may have changed his phone or email passwords. He turns his phone away from you and takes calls in another room. He makes plans, but then bails on you at the last minute. You believe that things will go back to normal once he meets his deadline or his pressures ease up.
It could be a sign that you might be on different paths. Besides taking the time to keep connecting over the common activities that brought you together.
Its equally important to explore new pursuits as a couple as well 1. He used to try to impress you. He used to be so thoughtful. But, these days he seems to hardly notice you. And seems to care about impressing you less and less.
Your relationship should still be consistently filled with your partner making you feel like they care. No matter what life throws at you.
If you no longer feel like a priority in his life. If the consistent investment in you and your relationship is no longer there. A partner withdrawing from physical touch is a definite sign to pay attention to.
In the early stages of dating its quiet normal to have a hard time keeping your hands off each other. Its also normal for things to settle into a specific habits or routines over time. It all seems to just flow so naturally. Your life and your interests. He might be more annoyed and less patient with you. He may ignore your attempts to connect or communicate. Every relationship had natural ups and downs. And his pattern will go from making you a priority to dwindling over time.
No longer putting much or any effort into spending quality time. Or connecting with you the way he once did. Related — Is He Playing With Me? Sometimes this is all it really comes down too. Things may seem fine on the surface. You might not be able to really nail down or articulate it. You know your relationship. Waiting for us to stop accepting men like this!
Best answer you could have given that kind of response, Rebecca. hello, My bf and i have been dating for a couple months.
He has two kids and me one. He was the one suggested earlier on for us to stay at his place a weeknd so the kids can meet. The kids get along great and we seemed to be in a very great loving understanding realtionship. we see each other every two weeks. well i lost my jobs two weeks ago and he was super supportive and still being amazing.
well last monday he started acting weird. he said he was confused about my emotions beacuse of something i posted on social media and i told him it had nothing to do with us. he stopped calling me babe, doesnt text me good morning anymore, he only texts as coomunication and we havnt spoken on the phone in a week. I feel like he has pulled away. What should i do because it so complicated with kids and I feel like i want to end it but keep getting advice to give him space.
I want to call him but i was told not to. I miss him and i miss how we were. He is older btw 40 and he told me that he has been super guarded when we started dating due to being hurt in prior relationships. I am already depressed about losing my job and being uemployed for two weeks but I am looking for jobs.
He hasnt even asked how I am doing or anything. He completly changed how he acts with me. Next weekend we are suppose to go over and spend it with him and his kids but I want to resolve this issue and I am unsure if he still wants us to be there. I don't think he is talking to someone else but could that be a possiblity? why has he stopped calling me babe? why doesnt he call me anymore and only texts? did i do something wrong and i want to fix it.
BTW he is my first realtionship in 5 yrs so usually i would say to hell with it and end it but i really like this guy and i love his kids and they love me. please help me. Hes a power player my love. If he cared about you he would be doing so now particularly, when you need it.
Dont go further down this line. He may have narcissistic tendencies by the sound of it. They use your weak times to gain an emotional upper hand by putting you in your place through the withholding of information. Your worth more. Totally agree with Esther. Don't get pigeon holed because of the kids. Get out. I am in a relationship with this guy from 3 yrs. Everything was perfect before his new job. I don't know what happened.
Its been almost 5 months and he is distant and emotionally unavailable. Whenever I ask him he always tells me I am very much busy with my work. We met only times in last couple of months. Even till first week of feb we used to talk over text one or two times in a week. But now its been 10 days I heard nothing from him. His Last text was I am out of town for official work and will inform you when I am back.
He is getting so distant day by day and I don't know what should I do. But I am respecting his needs by giving him his space and moving on with my life focusing on myself. Good that you're focusing on yourself and living your own life, Lyca, but there's something missing in you respecting his space.
Is he respecting you? It's never about the job, it's about the choice he made to make it about the job but this is really about him. The job only provides him with what he thinks is an acceptable excuse. Now isn't that really how it feels to you? I started seeing this guy he lives below me but I went to elementary school with him.
Once I moved in we talked briefly but I had a boyfriend. I broke with my boyfriend because he was psycho. This guy was so into me and wanted to be with me but said it needed to go slow for him. It feels this way, Katie, because you've given him all your power. It IS all on his terms and you're catering to him because there's something he has that you're willing to trade away your power for. Take it back by choosing your self-esteem, your self-respect, your dignity more than him.
Ask yourself why him? Who does he represent to you? Who does he remind you of? And who told you that you had to trade away these parts of yourself to be loved by someone like him?
make him feel less distant from me? Should I spice things up? Just be yourself and enjoy your time together when HE initiates it. Do your own thing the rest of the time. You will feel much better about yourself. Men like to Perdue - let him. Easier said than done - but it works! He sounds a little messed up. You are not responsible for making him "feel like himself again". The best thing you can do for him and YOU is to NOT dedicate your life to improving his. This is not to say that you should not do anything to help him through rough spots but if his well being, happiness and "feeling like himself again" is taking over your life then you have a problem.
He has to want these things for himself more than you want them for him. In other words he has to want to help himself and SHOW it with tangible efforts. You have only been together for a year, believe me - he still has plenty to show you, and you him. My husband is STILL showing me new sides of his personality after 26 years.
Don't neglect to consider depression as a factor, and also consider his hormone levels. Even younger men under 30 can experience low testosterone - and it will throw them for a loop. The first year was great. This second year has been even harder, we moved in with each other about a year ago.
Everything was perfect, we had so much time for each other and it was going great. Family drama out of the way our relationship was perfect. Those fights turned so sour. We never used to fight at all.
Well about 9 months ago. I caught him using Meetme and I had so much heart ache over that. He said he feels trapped and that we are only 21 and he wants to live his life and be free. This led to our break up, and we were only broken up for a week before he called me begging me for me back. He said he messed up and that he was so sorry and he realized he was wrong. So of course I took him back. A couple months went by and I got a job! At KFC, which I lost a month later due to them not giving me hours off to take my dad to his cancer center.
We had a few fights here and there but, nothing terrible. Then my dad passed in February which was 3 months ago. Yet, my boyfriend does not make things easy on me. I have a job at Walmart now and I am really good at my job and now he is the one without a job, and he told me that since I sat on my ass for a while he took care of me that he is allowed to do it now.
Well, About a month ago, I caught him using Meetme again. He stopped using it after I talked with him about it. But, all he does now is play video games all day long and he has been so distant to me, we never eat together.
He rather watch porn and all that. My insecurities get the best of me everyday. I hope that you are doing better now. I was looking for some answers to my own relationship that I am currently in and came across your post. I have been where you are. I lost my dad some years back and I held on to a bad relationship out of fear.
I even got into a worse one looking for that security. Its been 6 years later and my mom recently passed away. Now I am in another relationship that is not really making me feel very good about myself. I know that true happiness is something I can only find within myself but it feels so good to be loved you often put up with things you shouldn't trying to hold onto something that no longer exists.
Its hard but we need to learn to respect our own needs and worth and learn when to let go. Guess I found my own answer. I think you came here knowing the answer. He isnt respecting you, he isnt giving you the love you deserve.
Even before the passing of your father, he was being a terrible partner. If he is staying in this relationship simply to placate you, is that enough? Or do you want more? Do you want someone to look forward to spending time with you. Someone who wants to be affectionate and intimate with you.
Someone who will not seek out others to give those things to. As I write these words, I am reflecting on what also has just happened to me. I still am having trouble accepting these things and I hope I will soon. I hope you do as well and find the peace you need. Hes cheating on you and thats why he doesnt care. He lost his respect for you when you took him back. Its not your weight. My boyfriend and I have been together 3 months now and where talking a whole month before.
We where texting constantly talking for an hour to two on the phone, he told me 'I love you' first filling texts and calls with pet names. After we became intimate the following weekend he became distant, calls and text screeched to a hault. Once we talked he told me he had just found out he is getting deployed and he was struggling with how to tell me about it. His ex had actually broken up with him while he was deployed last time when he talked about it he still seemed hurt over it.
We had a long discussion over the phone about it then in person the same I even told him I would support him and be here when he came back too. Since then we have only had one more date night after that he had a long drill this past weekend but after that I haven't heard from him and his phone has gone straight to voice mail. I understand he is stressed over this and he has a lot going on with work since classes just started back for him.
I hate we don't communicate as much, I want to talk to him about it but I don't know if I should just give him space and let him contact me first or what. Should I confront him about how distant it feels or what? I'm kind of at a loss here. I love him so much I just don't know what to do at this point though I have been dating my guy for one and a half years now.
He was in a different continent but cane back 6 months ago. Something he admits is that he is poor in communicating yet that's something that means a lot to me from someone I love. We meet once in every two weeks. When together we talk almost about everything bif when he leaves he doesn't communicate or even say if he arrived at his place safely..
Another issue is that he uses his on hand to hand job himself instead of allowing me to do it when we want to get down to intimate moments. He takes a while to get hard also. Something else he has never introduced me to his family but just one of his family friend guy. I am left wondering about him b where could be the problem coz I feel there's a problem on his side. Kindly help. I tried to asked him about his communication he says he has that weakness but he tries, but it gets back to his silence again,,he takes forever to reply texts.
Though his family friend has ever complained about him not picking his phone calls and texts but I think I'm so emotional n I overthink when he does that to me. But he's such a gentleman, we are has planned to have a baby n u might be pregnant right now but I don't know if hell change for the better with much commitment or he'll be forever be this way. I do not mean to be rude, but 1. You havent even met his family.
That concerns me and raises flags. I dont know why I feel compelled to tell you this considering we are complete strangers, but how well do you know the person youre having a baby with?! Hi I am in serious need of advice.
My boyfriend and I have been together 2 months and it has been perfect. From the get go, he was the one that was more vulnerable with his feelings. He always wanted to talk and said "I love you" first and for two months It was filled I love yous and I miss yous all day everyday along with a variety of pet names.
Very very very rarely did even two hours pass without as texting and when he was working abroad for a month he would call every night and we would have the best time talking. About a week ago, his parents found out that he was seeing me and because of religious conflict, they said they would never support it.
For days he was acting weird and pulling back on the terms and phrases of endearment and when I finally confronted him about it he admitted what had transpired. Before he did for the past few days he dared to say it was all in my head because he was not ready to confess the truth and pulled back with the love language because he thought it was unfair to me if he continued and acted like nothing was wrong. He claimed that he had been crying every night. He said he wants me but that a future between us was slim and he doesn't want to hurt me that way.
After long talks and so much crying we agreed to continue dating and take whatever chance we could. That night he came over to my place and we were intimate and everything seemed like it was back to normal but he only said i love you once the rest were in response to my i love yous.
I know it may sound like over-analyzing but this was from a guy that could say it all day out of the blue. Now, I thought everything was over and we were back to normal, but for the last day he has just not been himself. He has a family company so he's reduced the amount of times he texted drastically to show his family our relationship was over. But his language had changed he still didn't pepper the conversation with I love yous and pet names and when I asked him why he seems emotionally detached on text he got frustrated and said he thought everything was good and just because he does not say it does not mean that he doesn't feel the same way.
He even ended with that I had to calm down and if i continue like this i would be pushing him away. However, after work hours he did not text and when i finally did he was with his friends. He always text all calls in between he never lets hours past by. He was silent again for four hours and finally texted goodnight and a quick love you.
No call to check up on me, no asking me how my day was. And the love language has been reduced to "babe" and "love you". I know this sounds like me overthinking but for the last two months I have been in love with one guy and for the past week that guy has totally changed.
I need help is it just me or is there something going on? Sounds like he got a reality check from his parents regarding your relationship, Anya. The question is, does he choose them, or does he choose you? That's a pretty deep conflict that he's going to have to resolve for himself. The question for you is whether or not who you're seeing right now in front of you in the person he is works for you. If you need more than this, and he can't give that to you, that's not going to work in the long run.
The worst thing we can ever do is build resentment over who someone used to be for a short period of time, when they show us who they really are in the here and now. Can you accept him like he is? Hi jane,beautiful writeup with very usable solutions.
Here's my story, this guy told me he has fallen for me, was so cocksure that I wouldn't fall for him so he has been drinking. To my surprise, I really fell for him, fell hard for him. At first, when we went out, he was all sweet, loving n keep showering me with love and intimacy. He can't stop kissing and hugging me. Few more outings went by n he left me on cloud nine. I really really liked him n can't stop thinking of him.
He wanted to get even more intimate and I wasn't objecting him to doing so. Afterwards, he just left me like that without even wanting to take care of my hunger. I was so annoyed and just nicely told him it would be nice if you can be more thoughtful and understanding. From then onwards, he changed.
He became cold and distant. I tried asking him what's wrong but he is keeping so mum about it. He never treat me as sweet and loving as before. In fact, I have gotten so confused and upset that I've cried silently over these and yet, since we are coworkers, its horrible ,really horrible to put aside my sadness and have to pretend that nothing happened. Its like we became I don't even know what any more. I'm really upset but he's a person who is emotionally withdrawn and most of the times, I can't figure out what he is thinking.
It really frustrates me but I still miss him. Because you asked for something for yourself, Koh. He thought it was only about him. You reminded him a real relationship is always about two.
He's not withdrawing from you as much as he's withdrawing from a real relationship where he carries the responsiblity, too. Don't take this on you. That's exactly what a real relationship is and his inability to embrace that is his own work to figure out, not yours. The best thing you can do if not take it personally and decide for yourself if someone who behaves like this is someone you want to be in a relationship with.
That's your answer. It's never that we ask for too much; it's that we ask it of the wrong ones who aren't capable of giving us what we ask for! Well, that happened what my gut told me was already happening I decided to ask him nicely, afterall I was going crazy trying to guess why he was different. He took some days and then told me he was not ready for a relationship. He was amazing at first, I was on cloud nine and then suddenly, he changed.
Why this keeps happening? I drove myself crazy trying to understand what I had done. That's why I came back here I know you say there's nothing I could have done differently. If he was where "I am" It wouldn't have mattered what I have done But it is exausting! I'm tired of having my heart broken I've been dating for years, why doesn't it work?
I want to get married, have babies it seems I can't find someone who wants the same things with me. Look for someone who's real at first, more than amazing, more than someone who puts you on cloud nine. Someone capable of putting you up there in the beginning, unfortunately can rarely can keep that up long enough to sustain a real relationship. I know it's so hard when you want to believe it's different with a new guy! Oh how I understand, Dianna. But change the pattern, and you'll change everything.
We get hooked in the beginning like this because we've found the one guy who shows us he has the potential to make everything better, but we're operating our of a subconsciouness that doesn't understand the rest! And don't forget this part, Dianna - "what my gut told me was already happening".
That's huge!! As hard as it is to accept, you knew, you knew, you knew! So next time, you can trust yourself right from the start. As much as it hurts to be right, oh how I know. But you do know. And that's something to be proud of. Hi I know this is old but I need advice! My boyfriend and I had a great summer together and plans for the future. He moved to college last week but assured me that he wanted to give it our best try and hopefully I'll be there next year.
He is an hour away and ever since he left he has been short and distant, he says he's just busy but it feels like more. Do I give him space? Thanks for the advice,,please I just started dating this guy,,, it's a week today. He would always call me when he gets to the office,when working and when he his about leaving the officeI.
We chats sometimes. At first I don't call him the way he does, and he would always ask if I'm not missing him But I just didn't wanna get so used to him. At a point I started checking on him that I got used to him. I visited him on Saturday and I couldn't stay long because he said he had a family party,but he wanted sex that day,I said no and he stopped. So I left for home, there wasn't any argument. We were suppose to meet on Sunday but I tried calling,was told the user can't receive my call several times,tried with my other line,picked the second time then I told him I was the one,he couldn't hear but I wasn't sure if he was playing a game.
I tried calling again with the line was giving me same response as my first line so I guess he blocked me or so and on WhatsApp,, I wasn't happy, I even cried bcos I stayed 2 years not opening my heart and now I'm getting all this. So I spoke with a friend and she chated with him then he mages me telling me he didn't know how that happened. He told me he his strong but he hasn't been calling line before,,,I'm trying to understand him but it's difficult.
I said yes to him bcos he had plans. Pls what should I do? I asked him why he blocked me he said it was a mistake. Adebola, you don't know this person. It was a week of messaging I presume? Ask yourself why you are feeling so anxious about someone you don't know. This anxiety is coming from somewhere and it's not about this person.
Only you can figure out what it is. Do not put people on pedestals nor hopes on them. See them as they are. You haven't seen much from this guy, other than being blocked.
That should be enough to know this isn't good for you, wouldn't you say? Remember he doesn't get a say in your life. You do. Your article is THE one thing I needed at this very moment in my life. Your advice was on point and I'm very grateful for that. I also plan to do the first thing that you said I can do about this. My boyfriend is my childhood friend that I have known for a very long time.
We had been secretly crushing on each other until one day I confessed my feelings for him and soon we were on this magical journey together.
Things were really great, and I got more than what I'd wished for from him. He had told me that he had conflicting feelings about me when he was crushing on me and that it was because he felt that he thought he might never be able to get me. And also that I had confessed around the time he thought his feelings of infatuation were decreasing. But that wasn't much of a problem in our relationship. Very soon, he told me that he wanted to break up. He didn't want to but eventually told me that he was drawn in because of the crush he'd had on me.
Just as I had bought his reasons and made up my mind, he said that it was all a joke. Also I wanna mention that he has a playful character, so this seemed normal just like the other pranks he pulls off. He did the same thing on me, every few weeks.
And I fell for it every time. The last time he did that, he wanted to seriously break up. I had become tired of the games and agreed without any questions. We remained friends for a couple of days.
One day he had been texting me while he was watching one of his fav series. And on that day, the episode had been a musical about love and breakups. He initially texted me saying not to watch it because I'd be depressed seeing it. Then at the end of the episode, he sent me "I love you" and wanted me to watch the exact same episode that he didn't want me to see a couple minutes ago. After that encounter, we haven't been talking to each other much and conversations didn't go like they used to before this particular breakup.
And soon we had stopped talking. It's been a month since we last talked. I couldn't reach out because of problems with the mobile networks. Now I'm unsure of whether he still has feelings and wants to be together or whether he wants to stay friends.
I don't know how I should approach him. I have a feeling that maybe I start being normal and call him sweetheart like I used to, i might ease it up for him to get along. I don't want to be very straight up and direct, because I'm afraid that he may not open up and pull back. I can't seem to find a gentle way to ask him about why he is being distant and the only way I can contact him now is via chat. We love each other to the fullest and we both know that neither of us can have a deeper connection with anybody else other than with each other.
Can you please help me on how I should approach him and talk with him about this? I would really appreciate if you give me examples on how to do it. Thanks a bunch in advance. Is this how you imagine a healthy relationship: a limbo in which you feel you have to walk on eggshells to not scare him away?
Some sort of uncertain situation with a hint of abusive "playfulness" that makes you feel insecure all the time? That's what I get from your post. You have a person here that seems to not really see you, but projected some idea onto you, and when you became real, a human being and not an idea in his head, he starts with hot and cold behavior.
Only you know if this is worth it. Think about the facts, not really just your feelings and your hopes. That may help start untangling you. Get busy doing things you love, spend time with kind friends and family who do love you and know you, and keep yourself from going back to this for a while.
Clarity comes much quicker that way. I'm feeling distance between myself and my bf of 4 years. He spends more time alone in his office "working" watching movies and sleeping on the couch in there so as "not to wake me up" even though I told him I want to be woken up so we could cuddle and fall asleep together. He says it's related to his music aspiring musician.
Three and a half years of this. I practiced distance myself last summer, but not aggressive distance, healthy distance. I started a garden, I spent time on my porch with the dogs in the yard, I went biking and hiking. I asked him to come along and was constantly met with rejection. Then at the end of my fabulous summer alone in my relationship I was told that HE felt left out of my life. What more can I do? I stay with him because he does have bouts of true love and romance and intimacy where I feel very special and taken care of.
But then his down time begins and it's wearing thin. Perhaps you unknowingly did or said something that hurt his feelings. Men, as much as women, can be emotional, too. It could be a joke you thought was funny, or digging up his past relationships that hurt him.
Remember, men feel shy opening up when they are emotionally hurt so instead, they act cold. Do so in a soft manner. Avoid mocking him for being sensitive. Take full responsibility even if you unconsciously did it, and apologize to him right away. Let him understand that you really care about his emotions and that you never meant to make him feel bad. The next reason is that he is taking a closer look at his real feelings for you.
It is normal to have doubts about the relationship. When this happens, do not take it personally because he is actually trying to do a good thing for you. Remember, a man who wants to make sure of his feelings is better than a man who just makes you hope for nothing. How to deal with it: This is quite simple. Give him the space he needs. Talk to him sincerely and ask how much time it will take for him to figure things out.
In the meantime, do not obsess over him. Focus on yourself and enjoy your own company. After all, if he is the right one, fate will always bring him back to you. When a man loses his confidence, he usually withdraws himself from people around him. Men might act tough, but there are times when they doubt themselves, too. Perhaps he is having low self-esteem or does not believe in himself anymore.
Find out what are some of possible reasons why your significant other is acting distant and cold. Is he falling out of love with you? Is he cheating on you? Find out why is he ignoring you and what can you do about it in this article.
At first, you might have ignored the signs of your date, boyfriend, or husband acting cold. Maybe he stopped sending you cheesy texts or does not hang out with you as much as before. You thought that you might just be paranoid and you brushed off the fact that your guy, seemingly without a reason, started ignoring you. You started panicking and asked yourself what exactly happened. One of the main reasons why you are reading this article is because you are experiencing troubles with your partner and you need answers.
Well, you are on the right track. It is difficult at first, but with the right tips, you can overcome this obstacle in your relationship. This is the most common reason why a guy acts distant all of a sudden. He might be stressed because of his family, studies, work, or friends. During this situation, it is important for you to acknowledge that men and women handle stress differently.
How to deal with it: Give your man all of the support he needs. Ask him what he is stressed about and if he chooses not to discuss it in full detail, reach out to him for a hug.
Then, assure him that everything will be fine and that you will always be there for him no matter what. Respect his choices, and just leave it at that. Another reason why he starts being cold is that he is feeling smothered. This usually happens when the relationship is new and you start acting so needy all the time.
Being clingy is okay, but there are times when men can only handle so much. A man wants to feel desired in the right way, not needed all the time. That is why making your man feel that you rely on him all the time might make him pull away from you.
How to deal with it: Questions are excellent tools to advance a relationship. Instead, try to ask him what he exactly wants. If he says that he wants you to be a little less needy, then do it for the sake of your relationship.
After all, compromises are a part of a strong relationship. Perhaps you unknowingly did or said something that hurt his feelings. Men, as much as women, can be emotional, too.
It could be a joke you thought was funny, or digging up his past relationships that hurt him. Remember, men feel shy opening up when they are emotionally hurt so instead, they act cold.
Do so in a soft manner. Avoid mocking him for being sensitive. Take full responsibility even if you unconsciously did it, and apologize to him right away. Let him understand that you really care about his emotions and that you never meant to make him feel bad. The next reason is that he is taking a closer look at his real feelings for you. It is normal to have doubts about the relationship.
When this happens, do not take it personally because he is actually trying to do a good thing for you. Remember, a man who wants to make sure of his feelings is better than a man who just makes you hope for nothing.
How to deal with it: This is quite simple. Give him the space he needs. Talk to him sincerely and ask how much time it will take for him to figure things out.
In the meantime, do not obsess over him. Focus on yourself and enjoy your own company. After all, if he is the right one, fate will always bring him back to you. When a man loses his confidence, he usually withdraws himself from people around him. Men might act tough, but there are times when they doubt themselves, too.
Perhaps he is having low self-esteem or does not believe in himself anymore. How to deal with it: Make your man feel that he will always be worthy in your eyes. Tell him that you will always choose him because you are in love with him, and nothing can change that.
Not even his low self-confidence or his poor performance. Regularly remind him that his worth is not only defined by how he looks or how he does things. This is the perfect time for you to get a little gift for your guy to cheer him up. You can also throw in some gestures like giving him little notes with good inspirational quotes to boost his confidence.
Lastly, remember that your man does not act distant all of a sudden without a valid reason. It might hurt not knowing why he acted cold all of a sudden but you have to understand your partner and not jump into conclusions right away.
Work through it together with your man. Be supportive, compromise if you have to, listen carefully to him, give him space, and assure him with your love. By doing these, your guy will no longer be cold to you in no time. Skip to content. Shop Astrology Dating Conversation. Toggle Menu Close. Search for: Search.
· So let’s dive deep into why your man might be acting distant. 1. He is scared of his feelings. This is probably the biggest reason men act distant to a woman they like. They are I'd straight up ask why he's being distant all of a sudden, you deserve answers. Share. Report Save. level 2 · 2 yr. ago. I've tried online dating, and dating apps, but I pretty much Answer (1 of 15): Don't worry. You should talk to him and tell him how you're feeling. He might have lost his interest in you, indeed, but that doesn't mean the love is gone. See, online 4. He is distant because he is trying to figure things out. The next reason is that he is taking a closer look at his real feelings for you. It is normal to have doubts about the relationship. When ... read more
We've barely spoken since we returned. We dont communicate much doesnt matter how much I want to. See them as they are. claudia October 27, , pm. We spent time together. He can't stop kissing and hugging me.I can't seem to find a gentle way to ask him about why he is being distant and the only way I can contact him now is via chat. Which is typically when he gets back in touch with you. My kids esp the eldest one started saying he does not like his daddy because he always working and i just told my son that daddy needs to work so online dating hes getting distant can have a future but after that i had a talk with him and told him about it and he just said it's for our future and we just need to be understanding and be patient The second problem almost all women experience: At some point he starts to lose interest. he likes having space from time to time and we talked about it already. He started forgetting to text me, or call me, online dating hes getting distant. He turns his phone away from you and takes calls in another room.